The word complain, is defined in the Webster's unabridged dictionary as; to express grief, pain, uneasiness, censure, resentment or dissatisfaction; find fault. However the dictionary definition does not express the affect of complaints on the people who make them or the people they are made to.
When a person complains they are expressing their lack of knowledge and understanding for the problem they are faced with. Voicing complaints is a way of iterating the need for help, in an informal manner. Some link the informality of the question and the nature of the person who said it. People who are self-centered have trouble voicing the problems with a situation because of their fear for inferiority. IT seems that the feeling of inferiority and self-centeredness go hand and hand. .
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However if a person who does not know the problem is forced to fix it, there must be a willingness to learn how. Without the willingness a person will not learn how to fix the problem, therefore leaving them right where they started. Without the knowledge of how to fix the problem there is only one thing left to do; complain. Complain, and hope some one around gets tired of hearing the complaints and offers some advice. Complaining is a bad way to ask for help. It is just as easy to ask a person, "would you please help me." However the self centered person must be in control, so that inferiority is not felt. Thus these type of people do not like to surrender their dignity so they complain. Asking a person for help or insight is the best way to fix a problem.
Knowledge is what separates people who complain from others. People who don't complain spend the time they would have spent complaining on building knowledge concerning the problem. Complaints are a form of wasting time. The time spent complaining is the also the time that a person who doesn't complain would utilize to become informed.
Holden Caulfield is sane in a sane world because although he complains a lot what person hasn't complained at some point in their life? ... People complain it is a natural thing to do. ... Holden complains throughout the whole book. ... He has something to complain about. Some people just have to complain about everything. ...
He deals with the bleakness of his present and future life by complaining. ... Tarpey first greets him, she says that he will find "no cause for complaining today,"" as if he complains frequently. ... Red Jack Smith replies to this discouraging perspective with: "If it didn't itself, Bartley, it is my belief you would carry a leaky pail on your head in place of a hat, the way you'd not be without some cause of complaining."" ... Bartley Fallon handles the bleakness of his life by complaining about it. ...
However, customers who don't get their service and in a respectful way tend to harm the company by making complains and suing the company. ... For the example, they harmed us by making complains about some valets who used to smoke, speed, and damage the customers vehicles. ... The reason why this company is still working for the hospital is, there are no complains from customers about this valet service. ...
And why people are not satisfied and in the same time not publicly complaining? ... [as if it was a monarchy,only with no heirs] And after all that the average person must remain silent and forget about his rights in this country as a citizen to complain to his government and you still call it a democracy! ... And if so why they doesn't complain? ...
The older people have complained the younger people are irresponsible, destructive, and rude. The younger people have protested the construction of retirement homes, saying that the old people are boring, old fashioned, and complain too much. ... The younger crowd may see some senior citizens complaining of service at a restaurant and assume that all older people are picky and rude. ...
Picture it, students realize that if they complain about certain grades to professors, then the professor would just simply higher the grade most of the time. With this, who is going to stop students from consecutively complaining about their grades to receive better ones? ... They simply appease the students who complain by "showering them with A's" to avoid problems with administration, Students, parents, etc. ... If professors would grade effectively with skill and participation instead of compulsive complaining than grade inflation would also cease to exist, if not than become scar...
She also shows her selfishness by complaining that she doesn't have any nice jewelry to wear. ... She is acting selfish by complaining about a dress and jewelry. ... He tries to make her happy and she keeps complaining. ... He buys her a dress and then she complains that she doesn't have any nice jewelry to wear. ...
In the story the town's people complain of the smell emanating from Miss Emily's house. ... It is a woman who first complains about the foul odor coming from the old house. It is again women who first complain of Miss Emily and Homer Barren's Sunday afternoon rides. ... Faulkner shows women as nosy complainers. ...
The Briar Hill mother, Linda, complained that she had to travel to New South Wales and pay for accommodation in order to be able to the treatment, as the procedure is illegal in Victoria. Linda is not the only person to complain about5 the cost of the treatment. ... However, if couples do choose the controversial method of gender selection they should be willing to pay the price and not complain. ... People say they use this method to gain balance in there family and then complain about the cost. ...