Children have a different way of observing the world and life in general. I have found that since I have become a mother, my decisions and actions have changed because of how my children will perceive me. I am now an example and a role model that my children use in their daily decisions. Because of this pressure, I live my life in the manner I want my children to live theirs. The influence of my children has had an astounding effect on my life, and I have become a better person because of their views and understanding of life. .
My oldest son, Jerrick, is one of the most amazing boys I have ever known. Of course, being his mother might make me a little biased; nevertheless, the statement is still true. He has influenced me to be a better person, shows me how to love, teaches me things that I never would have thought of, reminds me of the goals that I have set for myself, and helps to build my self-esteem. He is a very loving boy, and works hard to try to be the best that he can be. .
One of the first influential remarks that Jerrick made has given his little brother a nickname. When Jerrick was only three years old, he was outside playing with my brother. He came running inside to find his younger brother, who was less then a year old, because he wanted to show something to him. When I asked him what was so important, he said they had caught a "Chrishopper" outside, and that his brother, Chris, needed to see it. Of course, what he meant was that he had found a grasshopper, but he was excited the he combined that word with his brother's name. Ever since that day, his brother has been nicknamed "Hopper". .
Ever since Jerrick has been old enough to understand the daily trials of life, he has made comments that astound me. For instance, he once asked me why I was allowed to do things he wasn't. He wanted to know why I was allowed to watch rated "R" movies, drink caffinated soda, or even why I could crack my knuckles when if he tried to do any of these things I would either tell him to stop, or would forbid the actions before he started.
