was born the youngest of three children on May 29, 1955 in Ardmore, Oklahoma. As a kid his father, Jack, and his mother, Jo Ann, moved from place to place every couple of years. John came from a very wealthy family, which always lived in expensive houses in well-developed neighborhoods. Throughout his childhood John developed a very close relationship with his mother and would be the perfect definition of a "momma's boy." She was always at home with him because his father was to busy with his oil business. John never did anything that pleased his father, at least he never heard his father say he was pleased. As a child John resented his father and as he grew older the resentment turned to hatred. The last time that his father had even hugged him was when he was three years old. John was a very quiet and bashful who spent most of his time alone in his room listening to music and reading. His mother urged him to develop friendships with his class!.
mates and went as far as to arrange meetings for him.
After graduating high school his father was constantly pressuring him to attend college like his older brother and sister had done. John's interest was in music and poetry, which his dad replied, was a "lack of any concept of what it took to get ahead in the real world." John had two goals in life: 1) Become rich, like his father. 2) Become famous, unlike his father. John left to attend college at Texas Tech after many arguments with his father who was upset that he was still living at home. John didn't last long because he was homesick. .
For the next seven years he was constantly on the roam, but never spent more than a couple of months anywhere away from home. During these years his parents were living in a small suburb of Denver, Colorado and he frequently wrote and called his mother when he was away. He was a master at conning his wealthy parents out of money. His parents desperately wanted him to get a job and meet a woman.