Their family had plenty of money, but money was not what was most important to this society. The Jews of the Old Country valued religion and it was the religious leaders that held the most status. Rabbis didn't have to work and were instead supported by their communities because they were so valued. These Rabbis were considered holy and because they were so knowledgeable in religion, they were holy enough to do nothing but learn. The entire community would kneel at the feet of a Rabbi to listen to his wisdom, ask him questions, or have him dictate town law and interpret the Bible. Thus, Shenah's father recognized that in order to achieve a higher status, his daughter would marry for piousness. .
But Father said, he got plenty of money himself. He wanted to buy himself honor in the family. He wanted only learning in a son-in-law. Not only could he give his daughter a big dowry, but he could promise his son-in-law twelve years" free board and he wouldn't have to do anything but sit in the synagogue and learn (Yezierska 31).
Mother describes her husband to her daughter as so holy that when, "They called me in to give a look on him, but I was so ashamed I ran out of the house I didn't give a look on your Father till the day of the engagement, and then I was too bashful to really look on him" (Yezierska 31-32). Mother is humbled by Father's holiness so much so that she cannot even look at him. .
Father was wise, "How rich with the sap of centuries were his words of wisdom!," professes Sara. (Yezierska 202) So wise that, "Mother licked up Father's every little word, like honey" .
(Yezierska 166). It was this knowledge that gave Reb Smolinsky the high status he needed in order to marry Shenah and live a life of comfort. But then hard times fell upon the family and they were forced to immigrate to America. Mother says, "When everything was gone from us, then our only hope was to come to America, were Father thought things cost nothing at all" (Yezierska 34).