It looks at two generations starting with the Morel's and their marriage, following with the introduction of the sons and daughter, ending finally with their mother's death. I wish to examine Lawrence's view on marriage by examining the Morels marriage and the changes in human relationships brought about by the unhappy marriage.
In Sons and Lovers the relationship between Gertrude Coppard and Walter Morel stems from the physical attraction of opposites. Both are opposite in status; Walter is a miner in the nearby pit and Gertrude a lady, both were opposite in intellect, upbringing and even converse differently from each other. The social implication of their opposing dialects further adds to their mismatch. Morel talks the local dialect of the miners, whereas Gertrude comes from "a good old burgher family" quote who use Standard English. To Walter Morel, Gertrude is "that thing of mystery and fascination, a lady" p11 and she "was a Puritan, like her father, high-minded, and really stern" p12. To Gertrude, it was Walter Morel's "Sensuous Flame of life" p12 that attracted her to him. Gertrude came from a strict religious and moral, middle-class family. Therefore the marriage is doomed to failure from the start and their differing background brings them in violent collision with each other during their marriage. The character of Walter Morel would never have amounted to much, with his limited education. Had he not married Gertrude, a woman above his status, he could have become a better man. Gertrude on the other hand was much too mature, her efforts to refine the man gave no results and she lost heart in trying to change him. A change in their relationship develops when they tire of "love talk"p14 and the reality of their marriage appears. Mr Morel turns to drink to relieve himself from his frustration within his marriage, leading to numerous problems. It was customary for the miners to have a drink before returning home but Mrs Morel, with her middle-class background accepted this less than most.