Remember that (1599). She is learning to take responsibility for her actions. .
Helmer is Noras main oppressor. There are instances throughout the play of his disregard for his wifes feelings or intelligence. When she is giving her opinion on their monetary situation, all he can say to her is Nora, Nora, how like a woman! (1569). Later on when Nora and Helmer are discussing Krogstads job at the bank, Helmer says, What if its rumored around now that the new bank manager was vetoed by his wife- to which Nora replies, Yes, what then- (1591). He cant imagine his wife being seen as anything other than a silent toy who twitters occasionally. Another example is when Nora, Helmer, and Dr. Rank are discussing the evening. Nora asks Rank if he did any scientific research today, and Helmer interrupts with Come now- little Nora talking about scientific research! (1607). What is interesting is that Helmer is the oblivious one. Rank and Nora are actually carrying on a secret conversation right in front of him that he is too dense to realize. There are many other examples of his attitude toward Nora, especially in the scene where Helmer receives Krogstads first letter. These scenes all point to an utter lack of regard for Noras feelings or intelligence by Helmer.
Mrs. Lindes character also treats Nora as if she is a silly child. Even though Kristine and Nora appear to be the same age, Kristine tends to act superior to Nora. This is evident from the moment Kristine first arrives in Noras home. While they are discussing Helmers new job, Kristine says, Nora, Nora, arent you sensible yet? (1573). Later, when Nora is volunteering to help Kristine find a job, Kristine has the nerve to say, How very kind of you, Nora, to be so concerned over me- doubly kind, considering you really know so little of lifes burdens yourself (1575). It seems that Kristine is thanking Nora for her help by insulting her.
