He was able to create the perfect disheartening environments for the lives of women whose futures were just as bleak. However, during this time, Hardy became acquainted with Julia Martin, his first real teacher, and ultimately a very good friend. Hardy extremely admired her and once said it was she who inspired the kind-hearted and noble-minded characteristics in many of his female characters (Ousby 432).
Tess of the d"Urbervilles" Tess is usually examined to be one of Hardy's most tragic and interesting characters. The overwhelming sense of Tess" dignity in the closing pages of the novel simply shows that Hardy did not associate honor with gender or social status (Haycraft & Kunitz 278). Since she was from a humble family and was executed as a criminal, Tess" virtue, which was highly uncommon for most peasant women of the time, was not recognized by society. However, no matter how tragic Tess" life became, she always thought for herself, such as when she refuses Alec's proposal, "If I had ever sincerely loved you I should not be so loathe and hate myself for my weakness as I do now" (Hardy, Tess 78). Tess was written during the later years of Hardy's first marriage to Emma Lavinia Gifford. During this time, the Hardy's marital difficulties were increasing and Thomas Hardy tended to have personal relationships with other women. While writing Tess" character, it is believed that Hardy created her from the traits that his wife lacked, or in other words, Tess was Hardy's ideal woman (Howes 278). Also written around this time, the highly controversial Jude the Obscure could also be cited as another reflection of the tension within his marriage. Aside from this fact, Hardy's reputation did not falter and he created Sue Bridehead, Jude's main heroine. When Jude was written in 1895, society was quickly modernizing and the role of women slowly but surely was changing. Sue, a truly unique character to British literature, represents the "new woman" that emerged as the 19th century came to a close (Howes 282).