The main character is also ET himself as he journeys through the story. The premise of the story seems simple: Elliot finds ET, who is a visitor from another planet left stranded on Earth. ET is hiding in his backyard, and, like many other young teens that find a stray, Elliot decides to keep him. Hiding the alien from his mother, Elliot and the neighborhood kids make friends with ET. The story is much deeper here than this easy plot. The story itself examines the search for self as seen through the eyes of a teen that is in the full stages of adolescent turmoil and through the eyes of an alien who longs to belong.
Elliot's parents are getting a divorce. If this itself were the only problem, Elliot could handle it. Elliot is also the middle child, which presents its own dilemmas. Elliot's mother is also wrapped up in her own situation, not connected or in tune with her children. ET begins to fill the gap as a father figure. The two relate so well to each other because, even though, E.T. fills the gap for Elliot, he is missing his own family and is comforted by Elliot (Lawless 55). It also shows the feelings of childhood innocence (both Elliot and ET) and hurt over the parental breakup. One of the story's best moments shows this meaning of a hurtful childhood by divorce. The mother is reading the daughter, Gertie, a bedtime story. Significantly, the story is Peter Pan, which deals with the struggle of growing up. The camera then shows the boys, Elliot and his brother, reliving old memories of their father. ET is watching the mother/daughter bond and is pining for what he has lost and so desperately wants back. (Spielberg) No other part in the story so clearly portraits the sorrow over the parental split and the need for a close family relationship. ET eventually brings them closer than ever to each other. Though he becomes attached to Elliot, ET wants to get back to his own family and his own planet.