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Friends


            Art Linkletter, a once famous television personality, coined the phrase "Kids say the darndest things!" I have found this also to be true of friends. We all have friends, from mere acquaintances to intimate relationships, with social friends being somewhere in the middle of the span. We meet them at School, work, Church and many different places. I had the pleasant misfortune of making friends with three very different types of people whom I'll call the dominators, the dependers, and the equalizers. .
             The dominators are those "know-it-all" types that have to be the center of attention in nearly every situation. They seem to have knowledge covering every subject known to mankind. They proudly display their knowledge in each and every meeting by speaking with self-appointed authority about the topic under discussion. Being courteous, they wait to be the last person to share in a conversation, or until the internal pressure is about to cause spontaneous combustion before gracing the group with their vast wisdom. Then they go through a series of "one-upmanship" comments about previous speakers to prove how much more knowledge they have than their peers. They are always ready to tell others the right way (their way) to manage their lives. For example one of my friends, constantly seeks to tell others how he has found the answers. He'll pry his way into a conversation, probing a person to reveal a personal dilemma, all in the name of helping a fellow human being. Then he will fill the next 15 minutes with a non-stop harangue of what to do to fix the problem. They accomplish this feat by quite literally dominating conversations. One way they do this is by speaking as frequently and as long as present company will permit. Frequently, they speak and act outside the "norm." That is, the normal speech volume for them is usually twice as loud as most people. They will also act with an over-exuberant amount of compassion for their point, as they speak down from their Olympian heights.


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