A little girl dreams of her wedding day from the first day of kindergarten. She imagines a beautiful white gown, a traditional, religious ceremony, and a Hawaiian honeymoon. She envisions a long, happy marriage, a large family, and separation from her partner only at death. Unfortunately, today, this fantasy seldom becomes reality. Despite her desire to find someone whom she will love enough to pledge lifelong fidelity to, the law deems it inadequate. The reality of the situation is that the law of every single state in America prohibits a legal marriage among the gay and lesbian community. The commitment and love that same-sex partners may have for each other cannot be formally expressed in marital ceremony simply because of their sexual orientation. The little girl's dreams are shattered because her idea of a happy marriage happens to include a relationship with a partner of the same sex. .
Bigotry and prejudice still exist in our evolving society, and traditionally people fear what is strange and unfamiliar to them. Although people have the freedom of speech and expression, they do not have the liberty to impose their beliefs on another person. It is understandable that not everybody will possess similar opinions and creeds; however, it is our duty as human beings to appreciate and recognize the rights and desires of others. The issue of homosexual marriages is a peculiar blend of political, religious, and social viewpoints. Some people say homosexual marriages should not be allowed for it is not an actual marriage others say not being permitted to do so is a direct violation of the Constitution and the Constitution is held to be the supreme law of the land and is adhered to absolutely. Ultimately, the banning of homosexual marriages is in opposition to the virtues rooted by our founding fathers in the Constitution. As Americans, we are all entitled to the pursuit of happiness.
Marriage has traditionally been defined as the union of one man and one woman as husband and wife.
