This is true for most guys: They are willing to spend time with a girl for an indefinite amount of time, as long as they are having fun. However, does this mean that they are thinking about being with you for the long haul? Not quite. So, before you fall head over heels, you really need to take a step back and do a little process that is very important to see what your guy is really about. Ask yourself five.
important questions. These questions will help you to see if your "perfect" man here is really truly worthy of your love.
The first question you need to ask yourself is, "how into me is he?" Well, the deeper his love is for you, the higher the odds he will want to make a long-term commitment work. One sign is that he is into you is that he keeps track of your likes and dislikes. For example, say you mentioned once that you hated mayonnaise. Then many months later he may be ordering you food and he mentions to the waitress to hold the mayonnaise on your sandwich. This may sound small and not important but the fact that he is taking small mental notes about you is very significant. Another hint that he is "into" you is that he calls you in advance to propose definite date plans. Instead of calling you and saying, "lets have dinner some time next week", he"ll say; "How about I pick you up Saturday night at eight for dinner?" This shows that he likes you so much that he wants to secure the date so you don't end up making other plans. The third thing you should check is how free he is with giving his phone information. If he gives you multiple numbers, he is making himself accessible to you at all times. This is a sure sign that he is opening up. But, if he denies you his number and calls you on his time or even gets flustered at you when you call him on the fly, he may not be into you enough to make you a major figure in his life. These three signs are very important answers when you ask yourself whether or not he is into you.
