Women are often hesitant to start a relationship with a man; with all the abuse and mistreating of women by men that they hear about and experience in "real life," makes finding or even trying to find a decent man in which to share their time a real challenge for them. From the minor acts of yelling and talking respectively to a woman, to the outrageous of beating, raping, and killing, makes it difficult for a woman to find a man she can trust and depend upon. Numerous men in the world disrespect women all too much, ranging from simply being uninvolved in the relationship, to the vicious act of murder. Because some men are untrustworthy, some relationships go downhill real fast. First, this not to say that all men treat women with disrespect, but for those who do, they make starting a relationship difficult for the limited number of decent men; men who treat the woman in their life the way a woman should be addressed by a man, with respect. Women do not know which men they can trust, and most women are not willing to put their heart on the line to find out. At the beginning of most relationships, men go out of their way to treat the woman in their life with the utmost respect. In some relationships, once the new wears off, so to speak, the man may change the way he acts. So many women have been hurt bya man in one way or another, that they lose trust in men, after the first time a man hurts them. This is not to say that women develop an automatic lack of trust in men, but being hurt time and time again, can make them a little leery of men.
Some women depend a great deal on a man to be there for them physically as well as emotionally, and when women do not have that, they tend to distance themselves from the man. Some women feel it would be easier to distance themselves, rather than to take a chance on getting hurt. One common problem in relationships is when a man is uninvolved in his wife of girlfriends life.
