Discussion of infidelity between couple has always been a taboo.
Sexual desire can often be described, but it is hard to measure. Previously most knowledge on infidelity was conducted based on martial therapists. Recently reaches has begun to perform a survey asking people about their real experience. Many people who are in happy marriage, commit adultery. It's the desire for variety, twist their sense of judgment. More then one in five Americans do have an affair in their life time. There are 2 patterns in the timing of affairs. A married woman like hood of staying is the highest in the first five years. For men is the first five years and after 20th year. Even though marriages are tied down by the vows. But the young married couples are tempted by the craving for flirtation and sexually charges. One reason for affair is for couples feeling rebelliousness against vows. In recent survey out of 180 couples, 98% men 80% women having sexual fantasy about others. The longer couples are together. The more likely they will have fantasies. These thought often lead a men or women that their love is fading. many things can trigger affair, some thing as little a promotion, a school reunion. But what ever it is. The final decision is up to you. Researchers have found in couples who is involved in an affair. Revenge flings, and motivational fling. One thing many affairs had in common is chemistry. We may never know the true impact that infidelity has on marriage. Must most couple do not seek therapy. For the ones that do, only 14% seemed to bounce back and show sign of real growth.
