This did not bring instant fame to Wilde, but it did put him out as a rising writer. In 1882 Wilde traveled around America on a lecture tour where he gave 140 lectures in only nine months. During this time he was able to me some of America's greatest writers including Henry Longfellow, Oliver Wendell Holmes, and Walt Whitman. After his tour in America Wilde returned home and did another lecture tour in England and Ireland that lasted till about 1884. In May 1884 Wilde married and English woman named Constance Lloyd. They had two children, Cyril and Vyvyan.
Oscar Wilde is a curious modernist as well as in "neo-romantic." His humor is typically of the Irish. His writing style includes social satire, critiquing social issues, and dealing with hypocrisy. For example, in "The Importance of Being Earnest", Oscar focuses on critiquing the myth of love and bond. He also deals with the issues of heredity in the development of personality. In other works by Wilde, he uses writing styles such as parables or fables such as the "Happy Prince" or "The Rose and Nightingale." In contrast to his other themes, Oscar's only novel, which is an autobiography, deals with his sexuality, and his lust for other men (Oscar is known as literature most acclaimed homosexual. This is quite unusual being that "The Picture of Dorian Gray" centers on the love between a young man and woman). His most common theme is that of Aestheticism. Meaning, that beauty is the secret to life, later to become that suffering is the secret to life. This theme began its roots at Oxford and stemmed from the conflict between Pater and Ruskin. While Pater was an aesthetic, Ruskin was a moralist. The contrast between these two worldviews is that aestheticism requires little discipline, more or less rejects it, where a moralistic view requires discipline, therefore elevating discipline to virtue in and of itself.