You must find out for yourself just who is good for you and who isn't. .
My friend Patrick and I have been through just about everything together. We have been friends since we were in middle school and have remained strong ever since. The day I realized when he was one of my closest friends was the day I went to go visit him at his school, Birmingham-Southern College last year. I remember being so excited to go to college and see what its all about. Being so excited to see my friend whom I hadn't seen since he left in August. When I got down there I was overjoyed that he and his friends had set up everything for me, they cleaned their room, a strange sight for a bunch of college students, they even had arranged a party just for me, of course there were about 500 other people there but I was in awe at the spectacle. I believe that true friends do things for one another without being asked to, they know each other well enough they don't need to be told when to do something or how to do it, they know what their friend likes and dislikes. .
I have already talked about Patrick, now I'll introduce you to my friend Tyriek. We met each other in middle school and hit it off right away. We would be over at my house everyday after school, just hanging out, doing homework, or playing basketball. Once we hit high school was when I realized that I needed to keep Tyriek in my life. Not only is he a good kid with a good heart, meaning he always is looking out for me and wants the best for me. But he makes me think. He asks the tough questions I don't want to ask myself. Asks the questions I don't want to know the answers to. He gives me the brutal honest truth and it in turn sets me free. I remember last year when I was having a shitty time dealing with some friends and some personal problems, Tyriek asked me "Why bro? Why do you continue to be friends with them? Is it because you are too self conscious about what the rest of the friend group will think of you?" and thats all I needed to hear.