For instance, in society, all the boys need to play all the sports such as basketball, soccer and rugby, etc ; and they cannot sit around and are uncompetitive. On the other sides, girls need to take care of their houses, and need to be gentleness and nurturance. There are the varieties perspectives explain for gender behaviors in families. The mother will relate to their identities how they become more difference in behaviors in the future. However, there are also the limits how all boys and girls or even families develop the childhood's identities. They will grow up and the social will provide the motivation and social structure determine their gender selves.
Understanding how male and female are sex dichotomy, there is also how society constitute the gender. Gender is more about the process and the society will help labeling the stereotype characteristics with terms "masculine" and "feminine". It's more about objective view and how the culture and historical determine. There are men and women, boy and girl or can make it become plural if in-group or large amount people (Eckert and Sally). This pattern is a function initial dichotomy after male and female sex. At first, all the parents want to know their children sex when all the babies were born, and later on the society will provide the gender that will treat the babies become boys or girls. The development of baby in the future is still continuing and growing up without any asking, "what 's my gender?" For instance, in the hospital, nurses always provide the blue caps for boys and pink caps for girls (Eckert and Sally). While this action seems normal to everybody, but in fact the color in difference point out the separate treatment of each baby. When in the baby store, the question for many customers buying the presents for baby is what's color/clothes/details or pattern? Overall all the customers will buy pink or yellow color for girls and blue or black for boys.
