The movie "Splendor in the Grass," and the essays "The Crack-Up" and "The Doomed in Their Sinking," are about being in a confused state of mind. Deane Loomis in the movie hopes to marry Bud Stamper, her one and only love. F. Scott Fitzgerald in "The Crack-Up" describes his hopes of playing football in college and going overseas during the war. William Gass mentions his mother and how she "committed suicide" without an explanation, in his essay "The Doomed in Their Sinking".
At the ending of Splendor in the Grass, Deanie comes back from the mental institution after trying to commit suicide at the waterfall because Bud cheated on her. Deanie visits Bud, who is married to Angelina and has a child with her. Deanie asks Bud if he is happy, and he replies that he doesn't ask himself that question. The point of the movie is that we don't always get what we want in life, but we can cope with the outcome. In his essay "The Crack-Up," Fitzgerald points out how "I saw that for a long time I had not liked people and things, but only followed the rickety old pretense of liking. I saw that even my love becomes an attempt". He is confused about the people he loved, and those he didn't. So, he decides to let go and forget it all, hoping to get an inner hush. By the end of his essay, after his attempts to step away and be alone, he realizes that it does no good, but he continues not liking certain people. He says "I will try to be a correct animal," meaning that he will become more cooperative and positive against people he doesn't like much. He will try to live on, even though these people concern him. The point of this essay is that we may not like certain people or how things turn out, but we can try to handle such people with care and do no harm.
In his essay "The Doomed in Their Sinking," William H. Gass explains how his mother "committed suicide" but, he doesn't know why his mother would do such a thing.