Mother and daughter - one of the most crucial relationship in either mother and daughter lives and communication between them is an important part of it. Linguist Deborah Tannen, in her essay "You're wearing that: Understanding Mothers and Daughters in conversation. " focuses on importance of conversation in relationship between this gander partner that can gets curvy as an rollercoaster. An author's goal is to help understand the readers, which supposedly are women, the power of that relationship and the fact that both sides, mothers as well as daughters, either over- or under-estimate the potential of each other. Mother and Daughter relationships are like any other " the tension, love but also disagreements are so intense and personal that this kind of relation has a strong impact on both, mother and daughter lives. .
Mother - the most important, influential and powerful person in many girl's life. There is no other person like mother for both, boys and girls. However the difference between mother and daughter and mother and son relations are significant. Tannen in her essay empathizes that "there is a special intensity because talk " particular talk about personal topics " play a larger and more complex role in girls' and women's social lives than in boys' and men's. " Mother often plays an enormous role in daughter's life, she becomes an emotional road map for her, an arbiter in her life, her trustee. Tannen mentions in her book that "Many mothers told me they can sense and absorb their daughter's emotions instantly. " That example only shows how strong the connection between these two people is and I can doubtlessly relate to it. Since two years I have been living more than 5 thousands miles away from my mom, and every time I feel kind of down and she called me to chat, she almost instantly asks me what is going on. The fact she actually asks me what is going on instead of just saying that something is wrong and trying to push me to tell her is really crucial at this point.
