"A proud heart can survive general failure because such a failure does not break its pride. It is more difficult and more bitter when a man fails alone." Chinua Achebe, "Things Fall Apart".
In his novel, "Things Fall Apart," Chinua Achebe has created an effective work of fiction which builds largely on the central conflict of pride versus humility. This book shows us how pride can destroy a person, while humility brings the long-lasting roots of peace and contentment. The above quote can be interpreted as; failure is much more easily accepted when it is deflected among the many. In contrast, accepting defeat solely, does not sit well within the conscience of a single human being. Achebe shows us that the African tribe of Umofia is not so different from the so called civilized world. .
A missionary comes to Abame; he rides upon his "iron horse"(120). Men hunting in the forest see the strange man, and they run to consult the Oracle. The Oracle tells them that this is just the beginning of an unforeseen omen. Out of fear, the clan kills the missionary hoping to thwart the unknown disaster. In some countries killing the ones responsible for this murder would be enough justice. In response to taking the life of one missionary, the foreigners slaughter the whole village. One act of cowardice begets an even more terrible act of pride. Many times Okonkwo's pride jeopardizes the well being of his family and friends. When having the option to show even the smallest act of humility; Okonkwo instead, chooses options that will surely endow him fame. An example of this is in the following quote.
"When did you become a shivering old woman," Okonkwo asked himself, "you who are known in all the nine villages for your valor in war? How can a man who has killed five men in battle fall to pieces because he has added a boy to their number? Okonkwo, you have become a woman indeed" (62-63).
