In historic times, it was common for a man of 30 or 40 years to marry a teenage girl. Then came the period where the difference ranged between two and seven years, with the man being older. Back then there was a simple logic was simple: the man would be the bread winner while the wife would provide babies. (Agrawal, 2012).
In my opinion, I feel that age does matter in relationships. While, it's not the most important factor it does play a key role in whether or not the relationship sustains a lengthy period or it's just a seasonal fling. There are issues that need to be considered with relationships that have a noticeable difference in age. These issues are not insurmountable, yet they are obstacles that must be considered and dealt with if the relationship is going to be successful and meaningful to both parties. I feel this way because in these days in time relationships are like the wind. Everyday it seems like most couples break up as fast as they fall in love. While numerous married couples who differ in age now ended up married, they also end up having a divorce due to either: financial problems, fights, or cheating spouses so spending a long time growing old together seem impossible in this day and age. Most relationships today only start with physical attraction or infatuation like magnets but we all know that we are people so we will have desires and attractions to the opposite (or same sex). Choosing someone that is right for the age is probably a suitable solution to lessen breaking hearts and emotional distress. .
Another reason I feel that age matters is because people nowadays create labels. When a young man or woman dates an older man or woman he/she is commonly called "cougar", on the other hand, when an old man or woman dates younger ones he/she is commonly called a "pedophile". These two labels doesn't apply to people who dates 1 year to 4 years older or younger, it only applies to people who are really old like five to ten years age gap.
