Because of love, man and woman come together and become a family £ » however after a long time being a couple, sometimes, the true love has faded and the husband or wife has the feeling named love with another person. It is not a rare affair in the modern times, and the different kinds of situations are as follows. The first is that a married person cherishes another person, but that person does not perceive it. The second is that these two people love each other but have not done anything violating the morality. This can be defined as spiritual love, but to tell the truth, it is already a little dangerous. And the third situation is that the family member loves and already has actual infidelity with another person.
No matter which one it is, a spiritual infidelity or an actual infidelity, it has a potential harmfulness to the family that already exists. First of all, the one who loves somebody outside the marriage will injure his or her partner's feeling. The basic factor for the couple is trust. But when the situation happens, it is impossible for the people who did the infidelity to tell the truth. And if faith has disappeared gradually between the partners, the love will also lose its colour quickly.
It is easy to imagine that if this problem appears, it is danger to the integration of the family. People who have infidelity just like trains coming off the rails. It is hard for them to turn around. Maybe they will suffer from the rebuke from their conscience, and their partners will also find that something unusual has happened in their families. This time, the quarrels and wars will break out, and the families that used to be happy are now breaking down.
Another problem faced by the people who have done infidelity is the bad influence on their children's growth. Children especially the young children learn the views of life and value firstly from their parents. No matter which part of their parents has an unfaithful behaviour, it will deeply hurt the children, and may cause their distrust of the world as well as the true love.
