There are many differences and similarities between men and women. Scott Fitzgerald realized this when writing The Great Gatsby. Fitzgerald shows those differences and similarities through Nick, the book's narrator. When describing Tom Buchanan's character he is always shown trying to control someone, whether it be Gatsby or Daisy. In contrast the women in the novel, Daisy Buchanan and Jordan Baker, are portrayed as angelic. Yet both the men and the women in the novel seem to be very elitist. .
Tom asserts his power by controlling people. He shows he is a man with power by being in charge of every situation. He uses words, tone as well as physical actions to prove his control. "'Well, you take my coupé and let me drive your car to town' 'Come on Daisy, said Tom, pressing her with his hand toward Gatsby's car- (127). Earlier Nick talks about how Tom uses his large, flat hand to shake hands with Gatsby's. This is one of his means of controlling people. Not only does Tom insist with words that he and Daisy take Gatsby's car he also pushes her to prove that he "'I want to see you, said Tom intently, Get on the next train'- (30). There, talking to his mistress, he tells her what to do and she obeys. He gets what he wants when he asks for it so why should he act any other way than the way that works for him. "'All right, broke in Tom quickly, I'm perfectly willing to go to town. Come on "we're all going to town.- (125). Tom has to make sure it looks like everyone is doing what he wants. Even though he didn't originally want to go to town he made it seem like he did because off his necessity to fell in control. Tom was portrayed as any man of the 20s with that amount of class would be. .
Nick's dislike for Tom is just the opposite of his feelings toward women. His attraction to these women shows in his tendency to make women seem as though they are higher beings. "Daisy leaned forward again, her voice glowing and singing-(19).