A good rule to follow is always think before you speak and always keep an open mind. It is necessary to put one's self in his or her mates shoes. There is almost always going to be a conflict or difference of opinion; however, maybe just an insignificant, negotiable one, but never the less a disagreement. .
Moreover "all is fair in love and war." Sometimes situations can cause more than a minor disagreement, one in which one or both partners have a strong view on the subject causing the spouse to be offensive or defensive. "All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest - never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equal partnership." Ann Landers .
Step Three: Companionship. Most likely when the two first got together, companionship is what he and she were most looking forward to. No one looks forward to spending eternity alone. People want Someone to share their interests and desires with, "to have and to hold "til death so us part." At the same time, that you find someone to share some of your same interests, they will also have interests of their own. Allowing one another to have time to enjoy his or her personal interests, without interfering. It is mandatory for each partner to have designated time to spend alone or with his or her friends. This will help your companion to grow as an individual, and in return will help the relationship you share grow also. .
Although most of us like to think of this part of marriages the most enjoyable part of having a spouse, it is often the more unmentioned part of a marriage. It is unusual for most couples to be free when talking to others about their love lives, unless they are having troubles. Being compassionate, maintaining that spark, and giving your all, should be the easiest part if all other steps are followed.
