The conception that lesbians and gay men may be parents is frequently perceived in today's society as impossible or immoral. Gay men and lesbians are often viewed as excluded from having children because sexual reproduction is related to men and women only. My approach to this uniquely controversial topic of gay parenting will be that of attempting to analyze the Pro side first. Gays and lesbians are human too and who is to say that they don't deserve equal rights in society. Society has to realize that the modern family has developed into many different forms in recent years in that the "nuclear family" is not necessarily the most common form anymore. .
Then I will attempt to analyze the Con side which expresses the fact that two people of the same sex should not be raising and rearing children together. Many believe that if the couple is unable to produce children together, then they shouldn't be raising them as parents. Children need a balance in their lives and different sexed parents can provide that balance efficiently. Each parent (mom or dad) socializes the child differently and the child needs to be introduced to both worlds. .
I will then proceed to critique both sides on strengths and weaknesses, based on facts, studies, and my own opinion, and then draw some of my own conclusions on this controversial topic of Gay Parenting. .
Pro Position .
There is no valid reason for refusing to call lesbian and gay headed household families. They fall under every conceivable criterion for identifying families and the concept of a Family. "They are groups of coresident kin providing jointly through income-pooling for eachothers need of food and shelter. They socialize children, engage in emotional and physical support, and make up part of a larger kin network". (O" Brien and Weir, 128). .
There are also many homophobic ( the irrational fear or hatred of homosexuality or gay people, Biery 88) individuals in today's society who are the main cause of negative stereotypes against lesbians and gay parents.
Now gay marriage is becoming a popular thing which will lead to gay adoption becoming more abundant. ... Laws regarding gay adoption vary from state to state and in Canada. ... In America there is a bit more increase in gay adoption. ... Who Supports Gay Adoptions...and Who Doesn't? People in America are beginning to support Gay Adoption. ...
Gay Adoption Adoption is an alternative for most parents that don't have the opportunity to have children. ... Some states are legalizing gay marriages and therefore doing the same thing for gay adoption. ... The position of gay adoptions is very opinionated. ... Unless the people making the decisions, the government, of gay adoption are gay I don't think they could have a valid reason why a gay adoption could not be. ... Not only do the gay people have an acceptance for gay adoption but so do some others. ...
If her biological mother dies, she may be removed from the only home she knows and placed somewhere else ("Gay Adoption"). ... Opponents of gay adoption claim gays and lesbians are more likely to molest their children. ... If we were to use these studies as a foundation on which to allow gay adoption, the decision would be clear. ... There are many arguments in the much-debated topic of gay adoption. ... Whether you are for or against gay adoption, the question that should be foremost in your mind is "What is in the best interest of th...
Gay and Lesbian adoption It is far to early to know what sort of effect Rosie O"Donnel's coming out, and now the most visible gay parent in the country, is going to have on gay adoption, but what it has done is brought the topic to kitchen tables and living rooms across the country. ... Sadly, six states around the country (Arkansas, Idaho Indiana, Oklahoma, Texas and Utah) are considering bans on gay and lesbian foster care and/or adoption. The American Academy of Pediatrics made a decision earlier this year to support second-parent adoption by same sex couples, but unf...
The state laws of Massachusetts, Pennsylvania, New York, Illinois, Vermont, Connecticut, and New Jersey do allow gay and lesbian second-parent adoption. ... On account of the fact that homosexuals are able to provide the same domestic environment as heterosexuals, gays and lesbians should be considered for adoption. ... The struggles that homosexuals face continues with laws that prevent gay adoption simply exist because the social stress of the standard family unit is so valued. ... The impact that government officials have on society's image of homosexuals is very overpowering and only...
Those who agree with homosexual adoption say there should be no reference to sex or sexuality when a child is considered fro adoption. ... Next, people who are for gay adoption say couples lifestyle is the same as a straight person's, whether male or female, and are capable of providing, care love and commitment to each other and to any child they raise. ... Contrary to what people in favor of gay and lesbian adoption believe, homosexual adoption should not be allowed because it is not normal and it causes a burden. First of all, homosexual adoption should not be allowed because it is n...
Gay marriage and gay couples adopting is a great idea. ... Gay marriage is just as fair as any other couples getting married. ... Something to make everyone happy would also be to help the adoption crisis that this country is facing today. Since homosexual couples cannot pro-create adoption would be an option for them. ... Truth is told if society wasn't so judgmental about gay marriage or people being gay at all then adopting wouldn't be much of an issue right now. ...
Adoption is their answer. ... Those who are against gay-adoption also talk about influences of being gay on children. ... For those who support gay-adoption, some foster homes are extremely unhealthy for children, and are often switched from location to location. ... Attitude towards gays is another factor concerning gay-adoption. ... Those who are against gay-adoption think that gay have no ability of making lasting commitment. ...
Gay adoption is a more controversial topic. ... Legalizing gay adoption benefits both orphans and gay couples and there is no reason for it to be illegal. ... Disallowing gay couples the right to adopt is a form of discrimination and many act as if gay adoption is not righteous. ... Gay adoption not only benefits gay couples but also provides orphans with a home. ... Nevertheless, gay adoption is still a minority and many of them cannot adopt. ...
"When a gay couple sought to adopt a boy- who had leukemia, had been neglected by his biological parents, had lived in five foster homes, and whose adoption was favored by his legal representative- the judge deemed it "not in the interest of a seven-year-old male child to be placed for adoption into the home of a pair of adult male homosexual lovers.""... Although only two states specifically ban adoption by gays, most states discourage it. ... (Wagner 1) Adoption agencies need to quit using sexual orientation as a factor. ... "There are now 36,000 children in this country- in foster homes or ...