The perspective given from the book Things Fall Apart, by Chinua Achebe, states the way of life without any favoritism towards any particular way of life. Achebe affirmed that lifestyle as a native would void any outside influences. In this case, the male narration focuses not only of the tragedy of Okonkwo, but also how the people around are affected and how in turn the culture affects him. Women play a minor role in everyday life, but their function in the community is just as important as that of the men. .
The main role that was given to women was that they belonged at home and for the most part they were to be seen and not heard. Their influence and authority do not exist much in that culture, especially for the wives of Okonkwo. The main character in the novel, Okonkwo has several wives. Okonkwo presided over all of his wives and children with a heavy hand. When Ikemefuna comes to live with Okonkwo's family, the first wife questions the length of the boy's stay. In reply he answers, " 'Do what you are told, woman,' 'When did you become one of the ndichie of Umuofia?' " (Pg 14). In these two sentences, Okonkwo not only manages to put his first spouse into her small niche of housewife, but also makes a reference to the village elders. He is suggesting that she was trying to be more knowledgeable than she should be. During the harvest season, the women of the village provided most of the task force behind .
planting and maintaining the crops. Also present in Okonkwo's household were the expectations of masculinity that Okonkwo held for his son, Nwoye. In his mind, men and women are two different extremes; men being stronger, tougher and more controlling, while women are meek, thoughtless and easily dominated. .
In keeping with the Ibo view of female nature, the tribe allowed wife beating. The novel describes two instances when Okonkwo beats his second wife. Once when she did not come home to make his meal, he beat her severely and was punished.