Looking at society through a biased scope can make many see minorities as a lesser form of life. Being born into a minority in today's world has shaped me very differently in comparison to the majority. Ever since I was a child I felt as if I was being pressured into things to make my family proud. You can see this characteristic in almost all families but in a minority family, it possesses great strength. A sense of independence existed as I was a very young child. I was playful and mischievous, yet kind to my siblings. When I grew old enough to understand the intentions my parents had for my future I became subservient and loyal to my parents and at the same time, I became shy. When I reached my young adolescent stage, I became rebellious and often thought independently. Fortunately, I stayed out of trouble most of the time. With all of the past memories added up, I enter my second year in college. I have learned most of my communication skills semesters prior to today and my self-esteem and personality have developed over time throughout my life. I am quite aware of all these essential elements to one's sociological behavior and try my best to practice each in healthy ways. I love my family, have a girlfriend and think positively of myself. Most of those outlooks on my self have always been there, but have recently improved due to the teachings of Sharon L. Hanna in the book, Person to Person and through the lectures of professor Oneal. The teachings, so far, have helped me identify healthy relationships with others, find my true happiness and helped realize my true potential in my future career. I am certain that this class will help me in the long run and strengthen my positive lifestyle.
After attending the lectures of professor Oneal, I have found many ways to identify and relate to true and positive relationships. The first step to finding a good friend is to understand what you like about yourself.