The endings of "Cathedral- by Raymond Carver and "Eveline- by James Joyce have been called moments of realization. After reading both of these stories I can't say I entirely understand that statement. Joyce called these moments "epiphanies- but of the two stories, his ending was less like an epiphany than "Eveline's-. .
Eveline's story is one you hear of often but never consider to be a conflict. Leaving home is something that all children must do when they reach a certain age. When she decides to throw away her life and happiness at the end of the story, she surrenders to the fears in her mind. She leaves her fiancé standing on the boat by himself waiting for her. To be brave is to fear something but to go ahead and do it anyway. She was scared to leave everything she'd ever known behind, thousands of miles away, but anyone in her place would have probably felt the same way. The difference with Eveline and most other people is that she has no courage to leave her difficult life and trade it in for a better one. The reason I call the life she would have had better is because if it turned out to be a disappointment it would still have been more favorable then her current living situation. She let's her family step all over her and take advantage of her. In my opinion Eveline stayed at home because she was scared but she lets herself believe it's because of a "promise to her mother, her promise to keep the home together as long as she could- (Joyce 1275). It is still a mystery as to what needed to be held together. One of her brothers is dead and the other travels around the country and is rarely home. All that is left of their home is Eveline, her miserable father, and "two young children who had been left to her charge- (1276). Throughout the story the reader never finds out who these children are so my opinions are based solely on Eveline's relationship with her father.