Therefore many adolescents who are GLB are scared of who they are and how others and their families will perceive them. They choose to hide their sexual feelings or remain in the closet. Gary Hollander, a psychologist, talks about sexual identity formation in his article in the School Psychology Review (2000). Hollander stated, "Concealing one's sexual identity builds protective walls and is emotionally draining." The results of disclosure can be detrimental but, "coming out" later in life or not at all, has adversely affected identity formation and successful development. Obviously each stage of development can be difficult to undergo for gay and lesbian adolescents who come to realize they are different from their peers. .
Studies show that adolescents are revealing or questioning their sexual orientation at ages much younger than before. "Developmental and social science models of sexual behavior in western culture propose that sexual attraction begins biologically with adolescents; 12 years for females and 14 for males (Price & Telljohann, 1991)." Other studies show younger ages, such as 10, where most heterosexuals discover opposite-sex attractions. What happens to GLB adolescents who reveal their sexual preference to others or those that exhibit tendencies of homosexuality, lesbianism or bisexuality? In general they become targets to those in the school environment that oppose their sexual behavior and liking. It is imperative, however, for GLB adolescents to reveal that aspect of themselves because it is healthy. "The process of identity development for GLB has been found to be strongly related to psychological adjustment; the more positive the gay lesbian or bisexual identity, the better ones mental health and the higher one's self esteem (Hollander, 2000).".
No recognition and no acceptance by families may possibly result in harassment, denial, and violent behavior against GLB youth.