It is a major part of a person identity. (Bridget).
Sexual orientation is not a choice, individuals do not choose whether they are homosexual or heterosexual, although lifestyle choices and sexual behaviors are a choice for all teenagers regardless of sexual orientation. Homosexuals and heterosexuals can engage in sexual activities with members of same or opposite sex. Sexual behavior does not predict sexual orientation. (Ryan and Futterman).
Gay and lesbian adolescence share many of the developmental tasks of their heterosexual peers. Which include establishing a sexual identity and declining on sexual behaviors, whether choosing to engage in sexual intercourse or not. Just like a heterosexual teenager would take precautions with sexual activities and whether or not they are ready to engage in them, homosexuals do the same. (Medical Library).
An extremely difficult aspect of homosexuality is what is referred to as "coming out ." This is the process through which individuals come to terms with their lesbian and gay sexual orientations. This includes both learning about one's self and sharing that knowledge with others. It also involves coping with societal thought and attitudes toward homosexuality. The coming out process is very personal. It happens in different ways and occurs at different ages for different people. Some people are aware of their sexual identity at an earlier age, while others arrive at this awareness only after many years. Coming out is a continuing, sometimes lifelong, process. (Bridget).
Recognition of one's own sexual identity and working toward self-acceptance are the first steps to coming out. Focusing on the positive aspects of being gay as opposed to focusing on the discrimination, fears, and myths about gays in society is necessary for self-acceptance. (Bridget).
There are many things to think about when considering coming out. There are some positive outcomes such as increased self-esteem, greater honesty in one's life, and a sense of greater personal integrity.