What exactly is love? Merriam-Webster dictionary defines love as "a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person." But love is hard to define because everybody experiences it differently. For some people love is a complete devotion and infinite adoration but for others it might be a temporary feeling that will soon fade away. Some people find love instantly and some might feel like it takes a lifetime to find. Everyone in some point of their life has experienced love whether they loved or been loved. People go through their ups and down when experiencing love but they rather be loved than not to be loved at all.
How does one find love? A person finds love by understanding what they have to offer, love means sharing yourself with a person who sees you for who you are.They want to be apart of your greatest moments and help you during the worst moments. Some people go and search for love for self-acceptance, approval, and identity. Some people are extremely insecure about themselves and have a fear of being alone. When people think they found love they drop everything for that person to make sure they do not leave. They lose their self respect for themselves. Some people go in looking for love for the wrong reasons like social pressure and filling in the vacancy. People will get into a relationship because people around them are in one and they do not want to be " the third wheel". Their friends might be married or engaged that sometimes seems to make people feel like they need to be getting married soon, they rushing their time. Sometimes people get in relationship to fill in the vacancy. They might be heartbroken and trying to rush the healing process. Finding love means finding yourself first. Once you find yourself and have built respect and confidence for yourself that right person will come along and treat your the same maybe even better.
How does one know if they're in love? When a person feels like they fell in love, their lover is the first thing that they think about in the morning and the last thing they think about before they go to bed.