My Personal Ethic Codes

            For me, personal ethic is really important because it reflects my personal moral principles, what I believe in order to help me to decide what is right or wrong in life. Ethic also shapes the way I behave towards other people to succeed. Therefore, for me, developing a personal ethic code plays an important part in my life because it helps me to know how to distinguish between right and wrong, how to react to many different situations, and how to be myself. For me, ethics are who I am, and what makes me like this. I had a hard time struggling with the decision of what I desired to be, but I am pretty sure about who I am and what I choose as my ethic code. .
             I believe that I was being taught ethics when I was still a fetus. My mother told me she usually read moral stories when she was pregnant. She believed that I could hear and understood even when I was still in her womb. Then, I was growing up, influenced by my mother's moral stories and the way my mother and my father behaved towards others in life. Moreover, they always told me to respect and care about others by showing me the value of caring and love. "Kindness and love always make you happy and succeed in life" was an advice that I mostly heard from them when I was young. As a result, at that time, my personal code of ethics is being respectful and caring about others as my parents' belief. Then, I went to school, meeting other people, remembering my parents' advice, I always reminded me to treat people I met with respect and love. For example, I tried to listen my friends' problems, and tried to help them to overcome theirs. I also treated them with kindness and respect. I was always thinking about others' thought while talking with them in order to understand them. That might be a reason why I rarely had an argument or conflict with any person when I was young. Actually, whenever I had any different point of view with my friend, I always tried to put me in their positions in order to understand their thoughts, finding the common things between us and then came up with an agreement.