The Perfect Grandma

            The dictionary defines a grandmother as the "mother of one's father or mother"." My grandma was this and so much more. Grandmas are there for love and support, not only for our parents but for us as well. A grandmother will provide advice to life lessons, and let's not forget, all the pampering a grandmother will do for her grandchildren. In order to be the best, grandmas must give unlimited amounts of love, support, pampering and advice. Love is the strongest feeling we feel in our lives next to hate and pain. As we develop we need positive surroundings, tons of love, and positive connections. Grandmas must have unlimited amounts of love whether they have 1 grandchild or 25 grandchildren. Love is the foundation for all of these qualities for us as small children and continues as we grow; the more we receive the easier it will be to give our love later in life. Babies and young children need nothing less than a positive surroundings, without this early childhood may not happen as normal. A positive surrounding basically a positive environment that is full of happiness and little to no negativity. Imagine going through negative experiences and surroundings now, they are extremely difficult to cope with at times right? Well babies haven't learned to deal with these emotions in anyway yet; therefore they can potentially harm a baby's growth and brain development in the earliest more crucial stages as well as throughout their entire life. As well as positive surroundings, babies, children, teens and adults all need those positive environments. As soon as a baby is born it starts making connections and developing attachments. Aside from the parent the grandparents are the next secure attachment a child will form. This attachment will last their entire life. .
             Another quality grandmas need to provide is support whether the grandchild is 1 or 20. Grandmas are the best support lines because they have had children before, so they know all the tricks and trades.