I do that a lot where there are people who would hurt me at school and I would do nothing to them I would just walk away and if they ever talked to me I would talk to them too without showing them that I didn't like the way they treated me. That got "stuck" with me in my life because I still do it today.
There were many people that I got influenced by in bad ways but one person that I think influenced me the most was my father he lived with me so a big part of his influences got stuck with me. Like for instance the way he would get mad at the smallest things that I did and start yelling at me like crazy got me scared. His way of communicating was wrong because he would not let anyone talk back and let them explain my father was always right and no one would change that. In the book (pg.73) it talks about how appraisals could be very different based on the person that gives you that appraisal like it has to be someone close to you someone that you have trusted for a long time, for example parents because they have been around us for a long time they raised us and you've put in your head that your parents know it all about you and about everything. I would always listen to my dad and what he said, but his way of communicating with me made me scared of lots of other things. Like if they yell at you they are correct I lived by that for a long time but I grew out of it and began to stop believing that. My dad would always lower my self-esteem like for example, saying that I wasn't as smart as my older brother and that I'm dumb. It made me feel really bad and it really didn't help with my grades at school. Also when I thought I did a great job because I got an award at school but my dad didn't really care because it wasn't a scholarship I was really affected by that so what I would do was not invite my parents to award ceremonies because I would get the same exact reaction in my dad.
A good parent should also be a good person. ... If a parent does not love their child there is no hope in them being a good parent. ... Clevie from "My Fathers Life" did love his son Raymond. ... On the other hand, Clevie from "My fathers Life" was not able to provide enough for his family. ... She had so many character flaws that it would be impossible for her to be a good influence for Conrad. ...
My experience told me that learning English in China is really useless. ... Because of that, parents were paying a lot attention on their kids' English skill. ... However, some parents think that was not enough. ... One of my cousins was major in nursing, when I was in China. ... Because my major is computer science, I did a lot research before. ...
My family consists of two parents, two children and a dog and we all live in a suburban home. ... My parents have influenced how I behave, feel, and act towards the outside world. ... My parents chose to be responsible and look after their kids more closely. ... My parents had the most important task in my life by helping me correctly develop my physical and mental life. ... My life reflects all of the positive and negative influences my family has bestowed upon me. ...
I was ten years old, my sister eight, and the new three bedroom split would be perfect for what my parents had considered their complete family. ... Looking down at it, I shouted to my parents, "Hey, what's the blue plus sign mean on this thing?" My parents just looked at each other in total disbelief and silence fell upon their faces. ... My sister who is currently fifteen and I at seventeen have greatly influenced our teenage lives on Anthony. ... It makes me feel honored the way he looks up to me and knowing the influences I had upon his young life. ...
However, my older brother brothers did not like restrictions, influenced their actions and judgment, dramatically changed their communication level within the family. ... My parents exerts their authority and influenced my older brothers actions and judgment by dictating how they can live their live. ... I think one way my dad could have influenced their actions better would have been have spoken to my their feelings about his concern of their safety at night, negotiated their curfew terms, and considered their feelings more. ... The communication in my family was great until the conflic...
Esperanza's lack of parental guidance, the poverty surrounding her, and the environment she lives in influence the way she views life. ... Esperanza views her mother as a pretty, warm loving person: "my mother's hair, my mothers hair, like little rosettes, like little candy circles all curly and pretty because she pinned it in pincurls all day, sweet to put your nose into when she is holding you, holding you and you feel safe- (6). ... Everyday at noon my chair would be empty. ... Treating a child this way has the potential of influencing a child in a negative direction. ... ...
In the article, Parenting, the author reflected many of the ideas that I employ in my own experiences in being a mother. The writer's ideas of independence and freedom touched base with my own ideas as a parent. ... I remember when I was a child growing up, these were power struggles I encountered with my parents over my independence. However, there were times that I wanted my parents to be the ones in control. ... I remember having these same feelings towards my parents when I was a child. ...
There was a brief time frame with no direct outside influence, but the subliminal ideals of my mother still controlled a lot of what I wore. ... Parents always seem to base their primary decisions on what kind of reactions others will make. Another factor in a parent's decision making process is to buy durable clothes that do not stain easily, or for better words require less maintenance. ... What is ironic about this is that the presence of peer influence of fashion is dramatically lower once you leave high school. ... I have to admit this was probably my most influenced time frame ...
Parents and Children "Shut-up", "Get out of my face", "I am too busy". ... My reason for this statement is due to the everyday occurrences of going out of my home and into public places. ... As a child, you are structured by your own parents" actions. ... Sometimes also the peers leave bad influence, but still I would like to write only about parents and children relationship. I cannot recall a time in my childhood, when either of my parents would scream or curse to get me to listen or to get my attention. ...