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Interpreting The Awakening

 

Societal norms forced upon Edna the decision to get married and have children before first realizing what kind of woman she could have been. After the beginning of Edna's awakening, she sees her first opportunity to imply what she's really made of by having love affairs with younger, unmarried men. The fact that the first man she fell in love with was Robert and the second was Arobin is of no consequence; she loved them because she was capable of love, and realized that she could feel desire and passion for a man (other than her husband). If Arobin had been there first, she would have loved him more. She was more in love with Robert because, as she said to him, " [i]t was you who awoke me last summer out of a life-long, stupid dream'- (Chopin 332). It was an accidental love affair; if it had been a female friend that had awoken Edna, I don't think she would have fallen in love with her in quite the same way. But on the other hand, maybe only a man could have awoken her in such a way to make her feel the desire to love and lust. I think she only fell in love with Arobin and became "[ ] supple to his gentle, seductive entreaties- because he happened to be there when Edna's sensuality and desires had come into full bloom, and Robert was away (Chopin 313). Robert inevitably left Edna because he realized that he could never own her in the way that was customary for that time. He loved her too much to force her into a relationship like that.
             Sending her children away was never a good idea. I believe they could have been the one thing that would have kept her grounded and sane. Having some responsibility for a life, or several lives in this case, other than her own would have kept her thoughts from running so rampant. This doesn't mean that she didn't deserve to wake up and feel all the things that she felt. She could have kept her children around and not had to watch them all the time; she had so many servants that they could have done most of the work for her.


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