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Hopelessness

 

Sometimes a family unconsciously scapegoats another family member as the cause of its problems. The young person who either assumes the responsibility for family problems, or who feels blamed for them has a tremendous burden to carry. The adolescent may feel guilt, conflict, rejection, isolation (Joan 20).
             Depression, an effective disorder, has been addressed as a single factor in suicide. Depression is described as exhibiting sadness, self harmful ideas, low-self esteem, withdrawal, lack of social and peer relations and other signs and symptoms (Reid, Patterson, Snyder 173-178). Depression not only displays hopelessness, but attacks the teenagers coping abilities and their ability to form healthy relationships, all of which leads to an increased risk of suicide.
             Dysfunctional family interactions permeate the feelings of hopelessness for teenagers. Teenagers must have three major perceptions in order to feel capable and in control of their own lives. These perceptions are: to be listened to and taken seriously, to have some control over their own lives and to contribute to something greater than themselves. In a dysfunctional family, manipulation is a commonly utilized tool so that a child rarely feels as though they have control over their lives. They feel as though they are done to' instead of making good decisions for themselves. Deanna Voegeli, a Licensed Practioner Counselor states: "Many times, they do not feel listened to or taken seriously so they look for a family' outside of their family who will fulfill this need such as a gang or peers who feel the same way."".
             A major increase has been noted in teenage depression as well as an increase in related disorders such as alcoholism and drug usage. There is an intricate relationship between suicide and depression. Of course, many depressed persons are suicidal, and likewise, most, but not all suicidal persons have exhibited depressive moods and symptoms.


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