He sang in a high pitched voice that his father told him he should be ashamed of. "It was probably not the only time his parents took out on him their hatred of one another" (33). Although the relationship between family members was not at its best, Alexander went so far as to save his own father's life. His father could never admit to this; he was probably ashamed that a great leader such as him would be put in the position where his own son would have to risk his own life to save his father's. This seems to be the start of the jealousy that developed between father and son. After a fight with Attalus, Alexander's relationship with his father was scarred forever. .
What he had said to Philip to bring him to the verge of homicide remains an interesting speculation. It may have released a long-suppressed jealousy of his son's good looks, intellectual precocity, sensational popularity with his soldiers, and the tight loyal circle of "Alexander's friends". (56).
Although Alexander and his father put aside their differences, they often competed and it seems that he was constantly caught between trying to live up-and surpass- the accomplishments of his father, while trying to tolerate his strange relationship with his mother. This jealousy came into play went Philip was murdered and Alexander was thought to have been a suspect. Alexander had probably wished his father dead many times, but it seemed unlikely that he would have a real reason to do it, and to do it at that time, if any. Although Philip's death is somewhat early in Alexander's life and Olympias" presence goes in and out throughout the story, their impact on Alexander is visible until his death. .
Alexander's sexuality was often questioned by his parents and his friends. Perhaps it was one of the effects of his dysfunctional childhood, or just something that he had acquired during his lifetime. "Never highly sexed, though with a deep need of affection, he had had his physical response to women frozen in childhood by his parents" mutual hate; it would be long in thawing" (48).