The question many ask in the midst of adversity is, "If God is loving, why is there suffering?" This question is not an easy one to answer. Christianity does not exempt one from pain, from disappointment, or from the hardships of this life. God disciplines those he loves. Romans 3:23 states, "We all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God." God is forever by the side of His children and is constantly there to help handle the trial that has been dealt. God says in Matthew 11:28, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." God loves His children more than the human mind can conceive. He places trials and tribulation in their lives to strengthen and deepen their spiritual relationship with the Lord God Almighty. These adversities also contribute to strengthen their personal character.
The testing of one's faith develops perseverance and, in turn, reinforces that one constantly requires a personal relationship with God. "Every disappointment is a trial of your faith a test that proves the genuineness of your relationship with your God and His word" (Arthur, 1997, p. 29). God continually tests one's faith to keep them on the right path. James 1:2-4 says, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." Experiencing these trials, the individual is greatly strengthened and develops perseverance. The hardship fortifies and shapes one's character, and in turn, one acquires many amazing attributes through the midst of affliction. Romans 5:3-5 states, .
Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.