It is only human nature that we develop our self image based on society's view of a perfect body. Bigger is better is the most commonly used cliché. Women are getting breast implants at an ever growing rate. Men are doing painful exercises and ordering expensive pills all in the race for bigger. I never agreed with the cliché. I don't look for the 36-24-36 in my women. I believe that a natural breast type is more attractive than that of the exaggerated almost caricature like implanted look that is prevalent in Hollywood today. The problem is indeed Hollywood, which has a big affect on our self image as a whole. We see the way the rich and famous live and we seek to emulate it. This includes everything from their lifestyle to their look. Another cliché I have become familiar with is "it's not the size of the boat; it's the motion of the ocean-. Women like for their man to master the art of sex and want a man that can help them reach a climax. Whether their partner is built like a porn star or not is irrelevant. What matters is if their partner is confident in his self and can perform. Men however are almost completely opposite. I believe that men are more caught up in size than women. Men fantasize about the women of Hollywood and look for a woman with their similar body type. A small waist and a large bust have become ideal. This is part of the problem causing the outbreaks of implants in women.I believe that bigger is nice but contrary to popular belief, bigger is not necessarily better.